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There is something that I don't understand about gay women. Well, there's some stuff that I don't understand about gay men also, but that is another story. Now back to the matter at hand. I keep hearing these stories about lesbian couples, who want to have a baby.
So. What's that about. If these chicks are feeling maternal, then perhaps they need to spend some time talking to a shrink, before they bring a child into the world. I mean feeling maternal would certainly seem to be a feminine quality. It may be possible to take that kernel of femininity, expand on it in therapy, and end of with at least one real live girl, between the two of them.
My lesbian friend says that she does not feel like or wish to be a man, she just prefers to share her life and intimacy with another woman. I told her that obviously she's not feeling like a man, because our intentions are not to share anything beyond a night of cheep thrills.
In all seriousness though, let us agree on one thing. Homosexuality is not normal. We can be politically correct, and pretend that it is, but it's not. I don't say that it's not natural. As far as I can tell, it is a naturally occurring phenomenon, but so is a club foot, but we don't call it normal. I don't doubt anyone's ability to love a child. All I'm saying is that a child needs a mother and a father, and if you really want the best for your child, you should be willing to get with and be with a man. Don't lie to yourself. If you can't face life with a man, then face life without the child.
Since Writing this piece, I was taken to task by a young lady of the Lesbian persuasion. This is her comment:

"Mr. Boldaz. I don't know if you have children, but I just wonder if those men who decide to become fathers do so out of "maternal" feelings.?

My response is, "Touche." "My Bad." I must revamp my position, and withdraw my suggestion, because she makes an excellent point (with her fine, self). I am wrong on this one, because hey, I'm just tossing seed. :-)


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